When your considering a divorce it seems that all you can
think about is what's going to happen if you stay or if you go. You are
plagued with a never ending supply of "what if " You are unhappy with the way
things are and you wish things were the way they were when you first fell in
When your in the considering stage of divorce this is the time
that you need to truly evaluate what the real problem is. In most cases, so
much has been said and done to bring you to this point that you can barely
remember what started it all.
Divorce is a life changing experience that can not be taken
lightly. So please, for your on sake determine what the real problem is and
then seek out any possible solutions, such as counseling or maybe some time
There has been many marriages that could have been saved with
a simple sincere "I'm sorry". So if your in the considering stage, search
through this site and arm yourself with a little knowledge and then make a
more informed choice about what you really want.
Overcoming divorce sometimes feels like an impossible task. Let me
assure you, it may be easy for some and extremely difficult for others but in all
instances recovery will come.
If you were recently divorced or
still struggling with being divorced, the first
thing you need to do is stop focusing on all that was lost. It
doesn't matter if it was material, emotional or
just plain security of being married. STOP!
Now is the time to start looking
forward. You now have the opportunity to completely make over your entire
life. Start working on that wish list, such as new
friends, new material things, new job, hobbies you always wanted
to do, places you always wanted to go
You have a clean slate to design a
whole new you on. Stop dwelling on what could have been and start making
what will be.
No matter what you think or what you've
been told, you DO deserve the very best out of life and its high time
you achieved it. Get out there and start setting
some goals AND reaching them. You CAN do it, YOU just have to
decide that you can and will.